After a Relationship Ends, this is all that Matters

When it comes to loving someone, there is one thing that matters past the fights, lies, disagreements, and break-ups. Past it all. That's how much you've touched that other persons heart. How you being with them reached their very soul somehow. How you're the only person that will reach that one certain place in their … Continue reading After a Relationship Ends, this is all that Matters

In Hindsight: I Should have Left Sooner

I should have left sooner. The signs were there. Red flags were flying. I ignored them, every...single...time. This doesn't apply to just one relationship, it applies to all the relationships I've ever had. Let's face it, I'm a sucker! But I'm changing that to the past tense. I was a sucker! Sometimes it sadly takes repeated mistakes … Continue reading In Hindsight: I Should have Left Sooner

Disaster Date #2: Me and Scratchy McGee

He Thought(hoped) it was a Date...but I Didn't. Let me just start this one off with poor guy! It all started when he over heard me tell my friends that I was recently broken up with and he jumped to the opportunity instantly, less than 2 minutes later he asks me if I want to … Continue reading Disaster Date #2: Me and Scratchy McGee

Random Junk #1: Watermelon

With Random Junk I'm going to pick a random noun and then explain what that thing, whatever it is, reminds me of. For the first Random Junk I choose watermelon because with the 4th just a sleep cycle away I've been offered so much watermelon by everyone! Like gosh! There are a number of things … Continue reading Random Junk #1: Watermelon

Don’t Sleep with Your Ex. Just Don’t do it!

It's almost always a bad idea and is filled with emotional warfare. To me, it should be reclassified as a type of self-harm, because that is ultimately what you're doing! It's bitter sweet; you have the person who you once had such a connection with, but at the same time you DON'T actually have them! … Continue reading Don’t Sleep with Your Ex. Just Don’t do it!

How do you Talk to Guys? Really?

The reason I even am asking this question is because I have a bet with my friend. We are challenging each other to see how many guys/girls we can approach and talk to, instead of just letting the other start the conversation. We realized neither of us have ever took action when we liked someone … Continue reading How do you Talk to Guys? Really?

Disaster Date #1: Stood up Walking around in Public Dressed like Madonna

After talking to one of my co-workers about dating horror stories I realized I should blog them because they make for a historical read! I hope that none of my dates ever stumble upon my site and realize it's them! I will be as vague as I can and never use names outside of funny … Continue reading Disaster Date #1: Stood up Walking around in Public Dressed like Madonna

Life’s hardballs and Just Pure Luck

The Bad: This past month has been a very tough one for me to stay sane...So much impacting stuff has occurred seemingly all at once. Yay me... I am going through a long-term relationship break-up. My man-thing of nearly 2 years breaks things off for absolutely ridiculous and selfish reasons. To smash an anvil on my … Continue reading Life’s hardballs and Just Pure Luck

They Found Him in my Yard…

Life has been throwing me several unexpected hardball's lately. I'll get into that in my next post hence the name. Anyways, a week ago something happened to me that I am still trying to wrap my head around. For the most part this kind of thing happens to celebrities, right? Not normal lower middle-class, everyday … Continue reading They Found Him in my Yard…