Recently I got into a situation regarding strange ex behavior and resorted to the internet for answers as to why. You know what the internet told me? Absolutely nothing. All I found were 'how to get your ex back' sites. Internet I don't want him! I have a new boyfriend that I am happy with! … Continue reading Advice: Don’t Listen to all the BS the Internet Tells you About Relationships
Expectations equals disappointment This is real life This is reality Not a fantasy land and definitely not a fairy tale Every single life form is different Everything has different combinations of components, molecules, and DNA And different habits, behaviors, and traits It’s funny we are all so different, but at the same time are all … Continue reading Do Away with Your Expectations of Others
I’m human, I get in funks. You kind of have to, to be able to appreciate the rainbow after the storm. With you the funk isn’t as bad as it could be. You give me a sense of comfort and clarity. I feel like my human emotions are okay and natural, when I always have … Continue reading Usually in Dreams you Eventually Wake up and I Hope I Never do
When it comes to loving someone, there is one thing that matters past the fights, lies, disagreements, and break-ups. Past it all. That's how much you've touched that other persons heart. How you being with them reached their very soul somehow. How you're the only person that will reach that one certain place in their … Continue reading After a Relationship Ends, this is all that Matters
I should have left sooner. The signs were there. Red flags were flying. I ignored them, every...single...time. This doesn't apply to just one relationship, it applies to all the relationships I've ever had. Let's face it, I'm a sucker! But I'm changing that to the past tense. I was a sucker! Sometimes it sadly takes repeated mistakes … Continue reading In Hindsight: I Should have Left Sooner
He Thought(hoped) it was a Date...but I Didn't. Let me just start this one off with poor guy! It all started when he over heard me tell my friends that I was recently broken up with and he jumped to the opportunity instantly, less than 2 minutes later he asks me if I want to … Continue reading Disaster Date #2: Me and Scratchy McGee
It's almost always a bad idea and is filled with emotional warfare. To me, it should be reclassified as a type of self-harm, because that is ultimately what you're doing! It's bitter sweet; you have the person who you once had such a connection with, but at the same time you DON'T actually have them! … Continue reading Don’t Sleep with Your Ex. Just Don’t do it!
The reason I even am asking this question is because I have a bet with my friend. We are challenging each other to see how many guys/girls we can approach and talk to, instead of just letting the other start the conversation. We realized neither of us have ever took action when we liked someone … Continue reading How do you Talk to Guys? Really?
After talking to one of my co-workers about dating horror stories I realized I should blog them because they make for a hysterical read! I hope that none of my dates ever stumble upon my site and realize it's them! I will be as vague as I can and never use names outside of funny … Continue reading Disaster Date #1: Stood up Walking around in Public Dressed like Madonna
You hurt me, we both know this to be true. Hurt me in a way that's not easily forgivable. "Some people aren't strong enough to deal with this hurt, and stop reading the book before knowing how it ends." But how can I stop reading while knowing our story may have many more incredible chapters ahead of … Continue reading Should I Give up or Should I just Keep Chasing Pavements?