When it comes to loving someone, there is one thing that matters past the fights, lies, disagreements, and break-ups. Past it all. That's how much you've touched that other persons heart. How you being with them reached their very soul somehow. How you're the only person that will reach that one certain place in their … Continue reading After a Relationship Ends, this is all that Matters
I should have left sooner. The signs were there. Red flags were flying. I ignored them, every...single...time. This doesn't apply to just one relationship, it applies to all the relationships I've ever had. Let's face it, I'm a sucker! But I'm changing that to the past tense. I was a sucker! Sometimes it sadly takes repeated mistakes … Continue reading In Hindsight: I Should have Left Sooner
He Thought(hoped) it was a Date...but I Didn't. Let me just start this one off with poor guy! It all started when he over heard me tell my friends that I was recently broken up with and he jumped to the opportunity instantly, less than 2 minutes later he asks me if I want to … Continue reading Disaster Date #2: Me and Scratchy McGee
It's almost always a bad idea and is filled with emotional warfare. To me, it should be reclassified as a type of self-harm, because that is ultimately what you're doing! It's bitter sweet; you have the person who you once had such a connection with, but at the same time you DON'T actually have them! … Continue reading Don’t Sleep with Your Ex. Just Don’t do it!
The reason I even am asking this question is because I have a bet with my friend. We are challenging each other to see how many guys/girls we can approach and talk to, instead of just letting the other start the conversation. We realized neither of us have ever took action when we liked someone … Continue reading How do you Talk to Guys? Really?
After talking to one of my co-workers about dating horror stories I realized I should blog them because they make for a historical read! I hope that none of my dates ever stumble upon my site and realize it's them! I will be as vague as I can and never use names outside of funny … Continue reading Disaster Date #1: Stood up Walking around in Public Dressed like Madonna
It's been a little over a week since he called it quits. We were supposed to move out. He kept moving the time back. I put my life on hold since he wasn't ready yet. I invested, while he feared. All for him to move out with his brother in a matter of two weeks....and … Continue reading The Day Reality Punched me in the Face: Part 3- Taking off the Rose-colored Glasses
He broke up with me, in a state of fear. I wanted to move out together, he was scared. He told me he wanted to live at home for a year longer. A opportunity arises, his recently broken-up with brother needs roommates. That would be the time to move out together after being together for … Continue reading The Day Reality Punched me in the Face: Part 2 – What I Learned
A few days ago, the person that I thought was the love of my life blindsided me with the statement "I don't want to be in a relationship". We had been together for nearly two years. I am still in a state of shock. His reasons...there was many. That I deserve someone that can give … Continue reading The Day Reality Punched me in the Face: Part 1- The Story
You hurt me, we both know this to be true. Hurt me in a way that's not easily forgivable. "Some people aren't strong enough to deal with this hurt, and stop reading the book before knowing how it ends." But how can I stop reading while knowing our story may have many more incredible chapters ahead of … Continue reading Should I Give up or Should I just Keep Chasing Pavements?